Ten minutes of me walking around a field rambling on about giving in to the tiredness and how I find acceptance ‘challenging’. No swearing but a questionable French accent does make a brief appearance. Sorry for that. Take care of yourselves mes amies x
What more do you need at this time of year than a ten minute, poor quality, unplanned podcast from me about trying to achieve a ‘good enough’ Christmas for children who struggle with high expectations and fuss and food mountains? Includes tips you will never read about in books.
I wish you and yours a happy, peaceful and enjoyable Christmas. Failing that, let’s just try and get through it unscathed x
I was in London last week for an Adoption Support meeting at the Department for Education. The Adoption Support Fund launched in England in May and has reached 2,600 families so far. There is, of course, still much to do and many imperfections to grapple with, not least lack of resource within Local Authorities to undertake assessments and a shortage of providers. Nevertheless the fund is paying for therapeutic help for children and families who would not otherwise have received it.
Our own application has been approved. We start new and direct work soon. I’ve done as much research as I can, but it still feels like a leap of faith. There is no neat evidence base for interventions effective for children and young people with complex trauma. I hope that one day there will be. I hope for lots and I think that the Adoption Support Fund is, for many reasons, a step in the right direction.
While I was in London I took the opportunity to chat with Hugh Thornbery, Chief Executive of Adoption UK about the Adoption Support Fund and engaging with government to bring about broader and deeper change. This is the fourth podcast in my experimental mini-series: another ten minute slot.
In this episode of the No Matter What Podcast I chat with Jenny Molloy, author of best selling book Hackney Child, about how her experiences in care helped her to become a successful parent and grandparent. And I ramble on about weathering the repeated crises that can come with parenting a young person who has experienced a fractured childhood. Let’s just say the waves are big and I’m working hard at surfing, rather than drowning. Hearing Jenny speak gave me hope.